A simple guide to understanding the first steps in the divorce process
Starting a divorce can feel overwhelming. Many people find themselves unsure where to begin, what the legal process involves, and what decisions need to be made in the early stages.
Understanding how divorce works in England and Wales can help bring clarity during what is often a difficult and emotional time.
This website has been created to provide a clear introduction to the divorce process, helping you understand what the first steps involve and what you may want to consider before beginning.
Our aim is to help you approach the situation with:
"greater confidence, preparation and understanding".
NAVIGATING YOUR
LIFE'S JOURNEY
The Most Common Mistake When Starting a Divorce
Many people assume that starting a divorce simply involves completing the online application and waiting for the legal process to follow.
However, the early stages of divorce often involve:
important decisions about finances, housing, and family arrangements.
One of the most common mistakes people make is starting the process without first understanding the wider implications and practical steps involved.
Taking a little time to understand the process at the beginning can help avoid confusion, reduce stress and make the journey easier to navigate.
The FREE First Step Divorce Guide has been created to help people understand these early stages and feel better prepared before beginning the process.
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Understanding the Divorce Process in England and Wales
Since April 2022, divorce law in England and Wales has operated under what is known as the “no-fault divorce” system.
This means couples no longer need to blame one another for the breakdown of a marriage in order to begin divorce proceedings.
Instead, one or both parties simply confirm that the marriage has irretrievably broken down.
Although this change has simplified parts of the legal process, divorce still involves a number of structured stages.
In most cases the process includes:
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Submitting a divorce application to the court
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Beginning the 20-week reflection period
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Applying for the Conditional Order
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Waiting the required six-week period
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Applying for the Final Order, which legally ends the marriage
Many divorces are now completed using the online government divorce service, and most people do not need to attend court.
Why Preparation Matters
While the divorce application itself may appear straightforward, the wider process can involve a number of practical considerations.
These may include questions about:
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financial arrangements
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property and housing
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pensions and savings
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arrangements for children
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long-term financial planning
Many people begin the process believing it will be simple, only to discover later that some aspects require careful preparation and understanding.
Taking time to understand the process early can help people make more informed decisions and avoid unnecessary difficulties later.
A Simple Guide to the First Steps
The First Step Divorce Guide has been created to provide a clear introduction to the early stages of divorce.
The guide explains:
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the key stages of the divorce process
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what happens after a divorce application is submitted
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the types of financial matters that may need to be considered
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what to think about if children are involved
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why preparation can make the process easier to manage
The aim of the guide is to help people understand what lies ahead so they can approach the process in a more organised and informed way.
Start with
the First Step Divorce Guide
If you are considering divorce or have just started the Divorce proceedings, understanding the process is the best place to begin.
The First Step Divorce Guide provides a clear introduction to the process and explains some of the key issues people often encounter when starting divorce.
The guide is designed to help you:
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understand how the divorce process works
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prepare for the early stages
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avoid common misunderstandings
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approach the situation with greater clarity and confidence
Common Questions About Starting a Divorce
Many people have similar questions when first thinking about divorce.Here are some of the most common
Do I need a reason to get divorced?
No. The law no longer requires you to prove fault or give a specific reason.
You simply confirm that the marriage has irretrievably broken down.
👉 This has made the process more straightforward—but there are still important steps to understand.
Can I start a divorce on my own?
Yes. You can apply as a sole applicant, or make a joint application with your spouse.
Many people begin the process on their own.
👉 Deciding how to apply can affect communication and how smoothly things progress
How much does it cost to start a divorce?
The court fee to apply is currently £593.
Some people may be eligible for help with fees depending on their financial situation.
👉 It’s worth checking this before applying, as many people overlook it.
How long does the divorce process take?
Most divorces take around 6 to 7 months to complete.
This includes a required 20-week reflection period before moving to the next stage.
👉 While the legal process follows a timeline, other matters can take longer if not planned early.
What happens after I apply?
The process follows a set structure:
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Application submitted
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Spouse notified
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20-week waiting period
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Conditional Order
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Final Order (marriage ends)
👉 Sounds simple—but timing your next steps properly is crucial.
Does divorce deal with finances and property?
No. The divorce itself only legally ends the marriage.
Matters such as property, savings, and pensions are handled separately.
👉 Many people don’t realise this until later, which can make things more complicated
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What if we have children?
The divorce process does not decide arrangements for children.
These are usually agreed separately between parents or, if needed, through the court.
👉 Thinking about these arrangements early can help avoid uncertainty later.
Do I need a solicitor to get divorced?
Not always. Many people complete the divorce application themselves online.
However, legal advice can be helpful where there are financial issues or disagreements.
👉 Knowing when to get advice can make a significant difference.